Do what you want: It gives the glow in you.

It is hard when you live in a world of lies, not being able to do what you want because of a choice that others make for you to do in favor of them.

The important about life and to be able to successfully land into the so-called "ultimate happiness" is to do what you really want to do. How?

Make certain about what you really want in life. You need to evaluate yourself and weigh things out from you because it is "you" that is the doer in here. It is not "them". It is not "we". It is not "us". It is definitely "I" and "I alone".

Force. It is hard. When you push pursuing to do the things that you don't really want in the first place, you will end up not being happy. You will not enjoy. You will not have fun in accomplishing them. It means shattered lives. It probably means destroyed dreams. It means faking the real you.

Oftentimes, the choice is not ours to make because there is  always this instance that others will completely burst like a demanding "hero" that says wonderful in you, making the choice that they prefer for you, but in totality it really disgusted you.

Believe in yourself. Choosing what you really want has something to do with your inner voice, the one that calls from within. After all, you will be the one benefited from what you really want.

Choosing to do what you want is trusting yourself that you can do it. You will be independently doing them in your own and that gives a sure flow and glow in your life. It will not be hard for you to do the tasks because in the first place, it is what you like and it is where your heart is. Thus, feeling of self-worth is yours in that. Success always comes out then.

Faking. It is a hard feeling. You are denying the real you. You are impeding something that is in you. You put barricade to what you want. It means not believing in yourself and not trusting the kind of "you".

In life, all comes in a choice. It is weighing things out that matters most to define the kind of happiness in life. No one wants to live in misery. Your choice will lead you to what you believe and that when you are there, you can say that I am alive. I have the kind of choice that brings out the best in me.

It is not about them. It is about "you" and "you alone". If you want to have fun and create the meaning of true fun, then, make certain of what you believe, of what you want, of what makes you happy. Then you can say that you have life. Regrets come in the end, but it doesn't mean that you have to swim from its sting, you need to get up and rise anew.

Life is not perfect. At least, you made the right decision. :-)