Until now, I am in the point of finding the right moment how to comfort the "important persons" in my life to ease their sadness that they are feeling. I admit that I am a people-lover person and I have this inner self of reaching out to persons, but this ones made me stop for some times and let me think all over, again and again and again on what to do, how to do it, what to say that they will not get offended or if what comes in my mouth will not aggravate their feelings. I admit that I find it quite hard to be in this situation because what I want is more on happiness for everyone, but life lets me think about the reality that there are some points that I need to accept and further place myself in a situation where understanding is always a must. That me too, I need to accept the reality and emphatize them the way how it should be. Frankly, I am just looking for the right time, the appropriate move to approach them.
This is one of the hardest part that I have encountered so far this year. What I have in mind is just the thinking that I just have to keep quiet and let time heals because what I think is that if I talk to them on the delicate matter that causes the breakdown of their heart, then I will add more to the sad feelings that they bear.
Life has everything - sadness, failures, depressions, turmoil, plaques, frustrations, etc. Name them, the world has it all. But to surpass all those unwanted "viruses" that kills the heart, time settles the feeling of a broken heart.
Realizations will come. What happen to them is unexpected and of course, no one wants it in the first place. It is to tap them out from their sleep. It is probably to hurt a person in order to be formed. It is to calm the wild waves of procrastination so that it will swiftly drip into its level of doing the things now. It is giving a tranquil atmosphere where rooms of improvement are theirs to take and that give some extra shots of ultimate force to sacrifice - a matter of prioritization.
What I know for sure that I do is that I did not give them false assurance because it is much hurtful for them to know because I know from the fact that the situation will lead to a bad news.
I just listen and keep quiet. I just keep my mind registering all those information and create judgment which I just know in my mind because I do not want that someone will get hurt.
One thing that ALWAYS holds this Earth is that REALITY BITES. And that is the fact that everyone needs to STRONGLY face. :-(
This one tests me. My answer: Conquer them with all tranquility. In time, answers will then form.
This one tests me. My answer: Conquer them with all tranquility. In time, answers will then form.
