Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Manners

Does asking nicely mean answering disrespectfully?

I hate someone who shows immodest response to persons who ask nicely. An approach is a courageous act especially when you ask to get information to a person you just encounter or when you ask questions to a high rank official. But that doesn't mean that when one asks, one gets an answer rudely.

I understand that people do have various personalities. Ones upbringing is not the same as of the others. The way others deal with people comes in different manners, but when one asks, and when answered, one doesn't deserve to be treated like an animal.

This is what I have felt this afternoon as I process for our duty at the hospital.

People do have feelings. The way one answers a person may indicate an effect that will bring the interviewee to hate you, like you, get mad at you or despise you. Dealing to answer a person's question is like treating the person with respect, like a welcoming care that you attentively attend to what he is asking. On the other hand, when one ask nicely and you respond rudely, then may lead to down their (interviewee) esteem that may psychologically result to hating people and treating them immorally. Never allow people to hate you nor label you like a terrorist because you are stepping to thier rights as a human being.

Respect is very important. People are not created to be shouted for, to be mistreated for, to be neglected and to be stepped on.

If one wants respect, it should start within oneself, you.

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