Thursday, May 8, 2014

When communication is lacking...

No man is an island. I do believe whether we want to be in a quiet place all alone, the power of two is still applicable. We need each other's company and presence even in the midst of tranquility.

One can't live without conversing to people. Conveyed messages need the involvement of the "sender" as well as the "receiver". The two plays an active role in the process of communication. But what if there is missing in the process?

Just like "It takes two to tango", communication is also like that. It only impairs in imbalance if one of the two active participants is not involving himself in the process, whether it be verbal or non-verbal.

When communication is lacking, there is separation. There is the big possibility that the one will lose attachment while the other would always want to seek justice out from the missing link.

When communication is nowhere to be found, life's a total mess. There are massive fighting and killing, extreme anger, unfathomable revenge, unjustifiable arguments, shattered dreams and lives, ruthless explanations, etc. All negatives are present.

When communication quits, it is the total "period" of everything. No more "buts", "ifs", etc. The "period" explains it all.

That is why, before losing the harmonious track, be open and be real. It is defining yourself and making clear that shadows not the truth. Never be afraid to tell it all, or else you will end up living in lies and lifetime regrets.

Communicate, extend and be open.

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